Heavy Weighs The King

1. Regularly express to her that you need and value her. 2. Do things that make you laugh together. 3. Compliment her for her special qualities and be specific. 4. Put your arms around her when she needs comfort. 5. Speak respectfully, don’t demean her or hurt her feelings. 6. Give her time to be with her friends. 7. Take regular walks hand-in-hand. 8. Be enthusiastic over things that she’s excited about. 9. Do something you think she wants done before she asks. 10. Discuss changes with her first before you make them. 11. Show interest in the relationship and the things she values. 12. Allow her to teach you things without being defensive. 13. Let go of the small stuff. 14. Be a good listener and value what she says. 15. Get away from the routine to spend time together. 16. Go shopping with her without watching the clock. 17. Make her breakfast and clean up afterward. 18. Set specific relationship goals to achieve together. 19. Act like you are partners in all areas life. 20. Don’t take her for granted, always be polite. 21. Admit your mistakes, and ask for forgiveness. 22. Defend her to others, especially to your family. 23. Don’t belittle her intelligence. 24. Scratch her back, rub her feet, and massage her neck. 25. Be especially helpful when she is not feeling well. 26. When she asks how your day went, give her details. 27. Never argue over money, it will damage your relationship. 28. Don’t embarrass her in front of others. 29. Make eye contact when the two of you are talking. 30. Show that you prefer her company over all others. 31. Give her your full attention whenever possible. 32. When she expresses her feelings listen with your heart. 33. Never flirt with another woman. 34. Brag about her and your relationship to others. 35. Surprise her with a card and flowers. 36. Call her when you know you are going to be late. 37. Give her your undivided attention when she’s talking. 38. Never compare her unfavorably with others. 39. Take care of yourself, It shows you care. 40. Be supportive. Help her to achieve her goals. 41. Run errands without complaining. 42. Sit close to her, even when you’re just watching TV. 43. Include her when you make plans. 44. Do things that make her feel cherished as a woman. 45. Build trust into your relationship. 46. Surprise her with a 15+ second kiss. 47. Stay in good of shape so she’s proud to be with you. 48. Be kinder to her than you are to strangers. 49. Make sure she feels valued above everyone else. 50. Continue to court her and date her. 51. Show affection for her in front of friends. 52. Hold her close when she is hurt or discouraged. 53. Surprise her with an unexpected gift. 54. Don’t forget to hold her hand in public. 55. Honor her and support her dignity. 56. Don’t dishonor her by eyeballing other women. 57. Fix dinner for her sometimes. 58. Be sympathetic when she’s feeling down. 59. Don’t ignore the small things that bother her. 60. Do things around the house that she wants done. 61. Tell her and show her that you love her every day. 62. When you’re away call or email often. 63. Show her affection without sexual intentions. 64. Show her affection with sexual intentions. 65. Let her see you reading and applying this list.

I get so sick of having to feel this way every single year. After so many years, we still can’t get it right.

longlivecarcrashhearts:

i miss her more when i can’t text her as and when i want. every time i catch a break and whip out my phone, i smile when i see a text from her. i can’t wait to see her this weekend. 

So in love with each other even after 4 years <3

Urgh hate myself. Seeing myself in the mirror makes me feel so… crappy.

Skin’s not improving at all. I hate my genetics. Seems like I didn’t get a single good gene from any parent.

I hate my skin. It’s so friggin’ ugly. Wish I could get a skin graft. After doing so much, it didn’t improve at all. Hurts my self-esteem. I feel very ugly, very very ugly. It’s not fair how those girls that smoke have perfect skin.

And why is it that I’m getting this same anxious feeling that my birthday won’t go well again this year?